Mission

About Pia / Marja

Sexual pleasure guide • Bodyworker • Consent Educator

My name is Pia Dahl. I guide people through the terrain of sexuality, intimacy, and embodied liberation - particularly those who feel stuck in shame, confusion, disconnection, loneliness, touch-starvation, fetishism etc etc..

I also work with people who long for more play, more pleasure, more truth.
People who are tired of performing, tired of guessing, and ready to meet themselves -
fully and honestly.

A Personal Turning Point

For years, I lived a life that looked fine from the outside. I was “content” in the restaurant business, comfortably uncomfortable in a life that didn’t truly align with my dreams.

Everything changed when someone I deeply loved- someone I had given my whole heart to- abruptly chose to end his life.

The grief shattered me.

What followed was a descent into darkness- and, ultimately, a return to light;
In that darkness, I met parts of myself I had buried: shame-filled sexual fantasies and desires I didn’t yet have language for.

I tried to explore these parts online, but what I found wasn’t what I truly wanted.
I was a 21-year-old girl who wanted to submit- and I was met with vulgarity, domination, and projections of male desire wrapped in pornographic distortion.

And my body knew better than my mind.
It said no- to being used and degraded in that non-consensual, rushed, scarcity-mindset energy I had absorbed long before I even understood what sex was.

My body pulled me inward.. not toward shutdown, but toward deeper presence.
I began asking myself: What do I need to change in order to attract the energy I actually want to be received in?

Strangely, it wasn’t until money entered the equation that someone finally asked me:
“What do you like? What are your boundaries?”

That was the shift.
I began to feel the power I had been holding all along - as a highly conscious and priveledged young woman in this dark, unmet corner of the world.
And it hit me: the rage I felt toward the men who wanted to do the very things I secretly wanted - that rage had always been there.

These dark desires were part of me. A part of my authentic sexual being.
But I loved myself to much to allow myself the experience, in the uneducated world.

I wanted reverence.
I wanted to feel safe enough to truly let go.
I wanted to feel deep, all-consuming pleasure in the pain.
I needed those holding dominance to do so with integrity, with presence, with skill.

There is a hunger out there …
A starving hunger for polarity, intensity, deep connection, surrender, and control.
But as a society, we lack the tools and understanding to build the safety needed to explore that playground with ease, depth, and joy.

So - step by step - I became the predator I had been looking for.
And in doing so, I became the teacher.

The Birth of Marja

On March 29, 2012, the name Marja Nebula came to me - a name that, five years later, I discovered holds the exact same soul number (11) in numerology as my birth name.

Marja is the part of me that holds cosmic wisdom, sensuality, sacred rage, healing touch, and devotion to truth.

Pia is the part that grieves, that watches, that holds the structure, the ritual, the grounding.
Together - we are one and everyone.

My Training & Lineage

I am a certified massage therapist (Institutt for Helhetsmedisin) and trained in Sexological Bodywork by Ingunn Tennbakk.
I’ve been mentored in BDSM and conscious kink by Mistress Kalyss Mercury, and am part of the Tantric Beyond Temple community under Puja Pijl.

I am also a certified Holistic Sexologist through the Institute of Holistic Sexology (formerly Institute of Authentic Tantra), by Devi Ward Erickson.

My Mission

I believe we are all born whole - but somewhere along the way, we are taught to disconnect from our truth.
I am here to support you in remembering it.

I work to shed light on the shadow side of sexuality - the unspoken, the taboo, the feared - and to create a culture rooted in consent, clarity, and compassion.

Consent is not a box to tick.. it is a living, breathing process.
I (try my best to) center it in everything I do - not just in kink and intimacy, but in how we relate to ourselves and each other in every aspect of life.

I am committed to:

• Holding space with professionalism, discretion, and integrity

• Uplifting those on the margins of sexual conversation

• Challenging stigma with tenderness and truth

• Offering tools for embodied confidence and authentic connection

This is sacred work.
And if you feel the pull, it would be an honor to walk a part of your path with you.